Mikal's teacher asked me for a copy of the restraining order yesterday. I didn't have it to give, as it hasn't arrived in the mail. The DV Commisioner instructed us as to what the content would be and the date it would go into effect. It has been two weeks without any copies being delivered. We have been conducting visitation according to the verbal instructions he gave in court.
I called today and asked for another copy, thinking the original must have gotten lost in the mail. They told me that it had not been mailed out. The District Judge (who oversees our custody case) had made changes to the order ~ suspending all visitation. What?! And no one told us?! She assured me that we would have a copy within the week and to go by the temporary order until we receive the new one. The temporary one gives no visitation as well, so either way we aren't to send the girls over.
I wonder if Julie knew about this decision? She had an attorney and I am assuming he would have been told about the change as he was responsible for drawing up the order. I told the girls after school because Mica had counseling. I was expecting her to be very upset and thought it might help to talk it over with the counselor. She didn't seem to care.
So, we won't have to send them over tomorrow. That means they will be here for my birthday!! We will be going to volleyball and football games Saturday morning, the fair that afternoon and then to the City of Rocks. It will be so much fun ~ I can't wait!